Understanding Subspace: A Guide for BDSM Enthusiasts
What is Subspace?
Subspace refers to the state of mind felt by a submissive person during sexual play, often used to describe the feeling of bliss or euphoria from sexual arousal. It is a mental space where the sub feels completely relaxed, free from any stress, anxiety or pain. This state of mind is often compared to a trance or meditative state, where the sub is fully immersed in the moment and the sensations they are experiencing.
How Does Subspace Happen?
Subspace is usually achieved through intense physical and emotional stimulation, such as bondage, impact play, or sensory deprivation. These activities can trigger the release of endorphins and adrenaline, which can create a natural high and a feeling of euphoria. The sub may also experience a feeling of detachment from their physical body, as if they are floating or flying. This detachment can make them more receptive to their partner’s commands and desires, which can enhance the power dynamic in a BDSM relationship.
What Are the Risks of Subspace?
Although subspace can be a positive and enjoyable experience, it can also be dangerous if not managed properly. When a sub is in subspace, they may not be fully aware of their surroundings or their physical limitations. This can lead to accidental injuries, such as bruises, cuts, or burns. It is important for both partners to establish clear boundaries and safe words before engaging in BDSM activities, and to communicate regularly during play to ensure that both parties are comfortable and safe.
How Can You Come Out of Subspace?
Coming out of subspace can be a gradual process, and it is important for the dominant partner to provide aftercare to the sub. This can include cuddling, soothing words, or a warm blanket. It is also important for the sub to rehydrate and eat something, as subspace can often lead to dehydration and low blood sugar. The sub may also experience a drop in mood or energy after coming out of subspace, which is commonly known as subdrop. This can be mitigated by providing emotional support and reassurance to the sub, and by engaging in gentle and nurturing activities together.