A submissive is a person who enjoys giving up control to their partner during sexual play. This can include a variety of activities, such as bondage, spanking, and role-playing. The submissive partner may enjoy being dominated, humiliated, or even punished by their partner.
Types of Submissives
Not all submissives are the same. Here are some common types:
- Brat: This type of submissive enjoys being disobedient and challenging their dominant partner.
- Service: A service submissive enjoys performing tasks and acts of service for their dominant partner.
- Little: This type of submissive enjoys being treated like a child or baby by their dominant partner.
- Pet: A pet submissive enjoys being treated like an animal by their dominant partner.
Consent and Communication
As with any sexual activity, consent and communication are key when it comes to BDSM and power exchange. It is important for both partners to discuss their boundaries, limits, and desires before engaging in any play. This can include creating a safeword, which is a word or phrase that the submissive can use to stop the play if they become uncomfortable or overwhelmed.
Domination and Submission
A submissive partner may engage in play with a dominant partner, who takes control and makes decisions for them during the scene. This can include physical acts like spanking or bondage, as well as psychological acts like humiliation or degradation. It is important for the dominant partner to also prioritize the safety and well-being of the submissive partner throughout the scene.
After a BDSM scene, it is important for both partners to engage in aftercare. This can include cuddling, talking about the experience, and providing emotional support. The submissive partner may need extra care and attention, as they may have experienced physical or emotional pain during the scene.
Being a submissive can be a fulfilling and enjoyable experience for those who enjoy giving up control during sexual play. It is important for both partners to prioritize communication, consent, and aftercare throughout the experience.