Kink Dictionary – Frottage
What is Frottage?
Frottage is a type of sexual activity that involves rubbing the body or an object against a partner for sexual pleasure. It can involve rubbing genitals against another person’s body or against an object, such as a pillow or a mattress. Frottage can be a form of foreplay or a sexual act in and of itself.
Types of Frottage
There are different types of frottage, including:
- Genital Frottage: This involves rubbing one’s genitals against another person’s body, typically the thighs, buttocks, or genitals.
- Non-Genital Frottage: This involves rubbing one’s body against another person’s body, typically the torso, arms, or legs.
- Object Frottage: This involves rubbing one’s genitals against an object, such as a pillow or a mattress.
Why Do People Enjoy Frottage?
There are different reasons why people enjoy frottage. Some people enjoy the physical sensation of rubbing their body against another person’s body or against an object. Others enjoy the intimacy and closeness that frottage can bring, as it allows partners to explore each other’s bodies in a non-penetrative way. Additionally, some people may find frottage to be a safer alternative to penetrative sex, as it reduces the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unwanted pregnancy.
How to Practice Frottage Safely
While frottage can be a safer alternative to penetrative sex, it is still important to practice it safely. Here are some tips:
- Communicate with Your Partner: Before engaging in frottage, make sure to communicate with your partner about what you are comfortable with and what you are not comfortable with.
- Use Protection: If you are engaging in genital frottage, consider using a barrier method, such as a condom or dental dam, to reduce the risk of STIs.
- Choose the Right Object: If you are engaging in object frottage, make sure to choose an object that is clean and safe to use.
- Respect Boundaries: If your partner expresses discomfort or asks you to stop, respect their boundaries and stop immediately.
Frottage is a sexual activity that can be enjoyed by people of all genders and sexual orientations. It can provide physical pleasure, intimacy, and a safer alternative to penetrative sex. However, it is important to practice frottage safely and with clear communication and consent from your partner.