Face Sitting/Smothering – Kink Dictionary
What is Face Sitting/Smothering?
Face sitting, also known as queening or kinging, is a BDSM practice where one partner sits on the face of the other for sexual pleasure or domination. Smothering is a similar practice where one partner covers the face of the other with their body, typically their breasts or buttocks, for the same purposes.
The Psychology of Face Sitting/Smothering
Face sitting and smothering can be both physically and psychologically arousing for both the dominant and submissive partners. For the submissive partner, it can be a form of submission and humiliation, as they are being physically dominated and controlled by their partner. For the dominant partner, it can be a form of power and control, as they are able to physically dominate and control their partner’s breathing and pleasure.
Safe Practices for Face Sitting/Smothering
As with any BDSM practice, it is important to establish safe practices and boundaries before engaging in face sitting or smothering. Communication is key, and both partners should discuss their limits, safe words, and any medical concerns before engaging in the practice. It is important to ensure that the submissive partner is able to breathe comfortably and that there is a safe and easy way for them to signal if they need to stop.
Equipment for Face Sitting/Smothering
While face sitting and smothering can be done without any equipment, there are a variety of BDSM toys and equipment that can enhance the experience. Some popular options include face sitting chairs, smother boxes, and queening stools. These pieces of equipment are designed to make it easier for the dominant partner to sit comfortably on the face of the submissive partner, while also providing a safe and secure space for the submissive partner to breathe comfortably.
Exploring Face Sitting/Smothering in Your Relationship
If you are interested in exploring face sitting or smothering with your partner, it is important to approach the topic with care and sensitivity. Start by discussing your interests and boundaries, and be open to exploring the practice in a safe and consensual way. Remember that communication is key, and always prioritize the safety and comfort of both partners.
Conclusion
Face sitting and smothering are popular BDSM practices that can be both physically and psychologically arousing for both partners. As with any BDSM practice, it is important to establish safe practices and boundaries before engaging in the practice, and to prioritize communication and consent throughout the experience.